Do You Want a Job for Life?

No, you don't. … Well, at least according to the statisticians we'll have at least 7 career changes throughout our lives.

It can't be a realistic figure. After all, I'm almost 30 and I've had just … 4 jobs. … Hm, maybe it's not such an exaggerated number.

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To see if I were the odd one out, I asked my friends and colleagues how many jobs they had throughout their lives and I must admit I was very surprised. Of course, there were some who has had only 2 or 3 jobs (I didn't count summer jobs.) but they were in minority.

A friend of mine, Beth, worked as a dishwasher, bartender, cleaner at building sites, food promoter in a supermarket, waitress in a confectionery, pet shop assistant (or 'beast tamer' if you like), business manager in the same pet shop (she is good at taming people too), data entry operator at an online company and then as a team leader at the same company. It's … 9 jobs within 13 years. Not bad.

The absolute winner, however, is another friend of mine: Maria. She is only 32 years old and has had 11 jobs. Yes, 11. She sewed shoes, then manufactured paper bags, then for a while she was a sales assistant in a shoe shop, after which she worked in a dry cleaner's. In the meantime, she taught music and English for children as a private tutor. Later on, she worked in a nursery for a few months. Then, she was a … I'm not quite sure what she did but something related to sales statistics. All I know is that they had two inventories in a year. ;) Then, she sang in a choir. (She's been singing in different choirs throughout the years but I count only this one because she actually was paid for it.) Then, she worked as an interpreter for a company offering financial consultancy. But she wanted something more creative so she decided to translate movies. (It's not that easy as it sounds. But fun for sure.) And now she is a data operator. Yes, she is this energetic and versatile.

So, the stats are quite reliable. But let's see why one in three workers remain in a job for less than two years.

Why do people quit their jobs?

Disillusionment – They feel they could do much more. This is usually combined with the appearance of new opportunities on the horizon.

Downsizing – Unfortunately, sometimes the career change is not our choice.

Money – Like it or not, you need it.

Stress – Sometimes money cannot compensate the stress which comes with the job.

Poor relationship with your boss – Nothing is more demotivating than a boss who cannot speak only shout.

No appreciation – The recognition of a job well-done is very important for us.

Relocation of the company – Not everyone can or wants to move into a new city.

What to do if you are unhappy with your job?

• My mother's advice: 'Keep repeating it could be worse.'

Result:

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• My advice: Learn new skills, prepare for a career change and look for a better, more rewarding job.

Result:

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How about you? How long have you been working for your present employer? Why did you leave your previous one?

I wish I were a …

When I was a child I wanted to become a doctor, then a singer, then an astronaut, then a movie star, then a diving instructor, then a car mechanic, then … I became older but I'm afraid not much wiser. I still have 'dream jobs' that I would simply suck at, provided that I would manage to be hired … which I seriously doubt.

Yes, we must dream big and shoot for the moon:

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Well, maybe not literally. 

BUT before you start chasing dreams, which, if came true, would turn out to be nightmares, try to be objective and see if it's really THE job for you.

How have I managed to rule fake dream jobs out? I made a list with every job I would love to do and then I 'checked' if there is any reason why I would be horrible at it. 

Here is my top you'd-better-not jobs:

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No. 5 Pilot

It would be nice soaring like a bird, free from any earthly problems …

Only: I'm afraid of the heights.

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No. 4 Recruiting Agent

It would be so nice helping people to find jobs …

Only: I would hire everyone and anyone because I would feel sorry for those who have no jobs.

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 No. 3 Psychologist

It would be nice if I could help people solve their emotional problems …

Only: I'm too empathic and I would cry my heart out.

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No. 2 Secret Agent

It would be nice to save the world now and then and maybe kick some a**es ...

Only: I cannot keep a secret … and I'm a terrible liar … and to tell the truth, I don't like hurting people.

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No 1 Millionaire

It would be nice to have no worries ... and buy stuff ... and travel around the world...

Only: … OK. I haven't ruled this dream out just yet. I'm still working on how to accomplish it.

But until I become a millionaire, I stick to brainstorming when it comes to choosing a career. What is brainstorming? Well, it's basically the same method I've mentioned earlier. Write down every job you'd love to do – only leave out the you'd-better-not jobs – and pick one.

Here are my realistic dream jobs:

How about you? How do you plan your career?

Learn from My Interview Mistakes

Have you ever felt depressed after a failed job interview? I have. More than once actually. After getting my bachelor's degree I was a bit naive, to put it mildly, and I went to job interviews without any preparation believing that my newly gained knowledge will be enough to get my dream job. Well, I was wrong. And though each failed interview taught me a precious lesson, I thought I share my experiences hoping it will prevent others undergoing the same ordeal.

How to talk yourself out of the job

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It was one of my first interviews. I was so nervous I thought I'm going to faint and perhaps even that wouldn't have ruined my chances more effectively. Have you seen Bridget Jones's job interviews? Well, it was something like that. I kept on chatting about unrelated subjects and since it wasn't a sales representative job, surprise, surprise ... I didn't get the job.

ADVICE: Give short (about 2 minutes), to the point answers.

Do you have a reference list? … Err, a what?

A recommendation letter is fine, but more and more employers/recruiters require a list of names who are willing to vouch for your skills and personality. So, don't make the mistake of going to an interview without such a list. I was applying for a receptionist position and the interview itself went quite well, but this mistake could have cost me the job. Luckily, the interviewer accepted the reference list in form of an e-mail.

ADVICE: Make sure you've asked the permission of those whom you wish to include into your reference list AND don't hand it over until you are asked to do so.

I am too much of a perfectionist.

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Though it is true, it is such a lame answer to the question: 'What are your weaknesses?' I wish someone would have told me that the best answer to this common interview question is a real weakness that you have managed to overcome. No one is perfect and your future employer is aware of this fact. What he wants to know is if you are aware of your faults and - what is more important – if you can work on your weaknesses.

ADVICE: Since you are probably not a native English speaker you can mention how have you improved your speaking and listening skills.

I've no questions.

Towards the end of the interview you most probably will be invited to ask questions. The answer 'I've no questions' will automatically make the recruiter ask himself: 'Is she interested enough?', 'Was she paying attention?'  or 'Is she creative at all?'. I remember back in my hometown, I applied for a typist job and though I said three times 'I've no questions' I got the job. YET I am convinced I was saved only by my English language skills OR … it might have been sheer luck. (Hmm, perhaps I should consider buying a lottery ticket.)

ADVICE: Don't rely on luck and prepare some questions.

It's the perfect job for me, isn't it?

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My biggest mistake ever was to go to an interview completely unprepared. True, the job ad was quite vague but I didn't even check what was the company doing for their income. It looked like a personal assistant vacancy but it turned out that I would have been something like between a croupier and waitress. It was nothing wrong with the job only I wasn't qualified. So I was just wasting my and their time as well.

ADVICE: Always check out the company on the internet. Nowadays, you can learn from how satisfied their customers are with their services to what their employees say about the leaders. It will also help you to prepare some questions.

How about you? What were YOUR biggest mistake during a job interview? 

How to Outsmart the Recruitment Agencies

So you want to work in the UK but you are scared because you've heard a lot of horror stories about the recruitment agencies? Good, because it will make you cautious. You know: it's better to be safe than sorry.

People usually turn to employment agencies because they don't know anyone in the UK. But there are some other options that will not only save you money, but will also save you from a nervous breakdown.

 

Take control of your job search 

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 Just imagine what would you do if you'd want a job in your hometown. You'd probably buy a couple of newspapers and you'd check out a few job boards, wouldn't you? But in this case you can't do that, because … Wait a minute! Why couldn't you do the same thing?!? Check out the latest job vacancies that match your skills and expectations. If you speak the language and you are from the EEA, I can't see why your situation would be different from the other UK citizens' who need to relocate. Write a smashing CV, make sure you have a few English references and apply for each job you can imagine yourself doing. Be honest about your situation and suggest a skype or phone interview at the end of your cover letter. It might take a little time, but at least you know it's unlikely you'll have to face unpleasant surprises after your arrival.

Find a job with the help of your friends

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In 2013 probably there is no one who has never heard about facebook and twitter. We use them every day to post funny videos, share what happened to us and to comment events/photos. But have you ever considered using your profile to find a job? Most probably you know someone who knows someone who might live in the UK. Why not ask around and see what you can find. Maybe you'll get only an English recommendation letter or you'll get acquainted with a UK citizen, but that's a good start. There is nothing wrong with building consciously a network of acquaintances within the industry you are interested in. (Read my previous post about how to make your facebook profile employer-friendly).

Couch surfing

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Couch surfing is a great way to travel around the world on a low budget. But why not customize it for your needs? Visit your favorite English city and while you're there look around to see if there's any job vacancy that would suite your needs. I'd suggest to have some interviews/meetings fixed via e-mail or or phone before arriving to the chosen city but you could also just walk into restaurants and shops where you see the help wanted sign. It's a bit risky and I wouldn't advise you to travel without money, but the worst case scenario is you'll have a nice holiday.

So your English could be better

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Of course, the better you speak the official language of a country, the easier is to make a career. But you don't have to be a native speaker to get a job. If you fall into this category, I'd suggest to ask your friends to help you find a job and you might want to consider the advantages of English courses. (There are FREE ways to learn a language.)

Recruitment Agencies

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I tried to show what are your alternatives. But in case you still wish to find a job through an employment or recruiting agency, here is a few pieces of advice inspired by the negative experiences I've read:

• Use an agency you've heard is reliable. Online comments are fine, but the best is if you know personally someone who find a job through that particular agency.
• Always double check the agency. Read customer reviews, surf on the net to see if there is any article about the agency (their site and the interviews made with company representatives are not the most reliable sources) AND check if the company is in liquidation. You can do that on the page of the Companies House, the UK Registar of Companies. Most of the information is for free and the rest of the documents like financial statements can be purchased for £ 1 per doc.
• Don't pay in advance. It's the company not the job seeker who should pay to the recruitment agency for finding suitable applicants. It's like on the online job sites. It is always free for you to upload your CV. They might ask money for plane tickets, accommodation, etc but I'd suggest you to be very cautious if they ask for money under any pretext.
• Read the small print. Never give in under the pressure to sign the contract before someone else does. Read carefully the job offer and make your own calculations. Just because they say you can save up to £ xx per week it doesn't mean you will.

Please feel free to share your experience with recruitment agencies.

Is Your Facebook Profile Employer-friendly?

Have you ever checked the results in Google Images if you type facebook drunk photos? Beware!!! It WILL shock you. I am not Nostradamus but I bet no recruiter will employ them if they see these pictures.

And if you think no recruiter will waste time looking up your facebook profile … Well, you are wrong. Due to the job sites and job aggregators the recruiters got more resumes per day than ever. Plus, most of them tend to pro-actively search for the best candidates. So, the odds are they will read a lot of very similar CVs. To rule out inappropriate candidates they WILL check out the candidates' social profiles. Honestly, would you hire any of those who appear in the above mentioned search result? I doubt it.

Clean up your FB profile

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So, the very least you can and SHOULD do is to clean up your facebook profile. And I do not mean only the pictures but the comments and posts as well. Yes, a picture is worth a thousand words, but an inappropriate comment can also be enough to ruin your chances. It is a tedious work, but it is worth the effort. Of course, you can simply keep your profile private. It will help you to avoid being 'red flagged' BUT it might give the impression that you are hiding something. So take the time to check your facebook profile AND I'd suggest to take control over your timeline and tags about you. You can remove a tag (the photo remains online but it won't be linked to your profile), block the owner of the post, decide if a post you are tagged in can or cannot appear on your timeline and you can even set the new stuff you are tagged in to require your approval before they appear on your timeline.

 

Boost your chances to Land a job with Facebook

If Facebook can ruin your chances why not avoid it altogether? Because if used wisely it can showcase your professional interest and your great personality in a way a resume simply cannot and it will increase your chances to stand out. Fine, but how?

Back up your resume

 

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Show how serious you are about your work. References are great, but proof of how serious you are about your work is priceless. Here are few examples how to back up your resume by highlighting your skills:

• Like the pages of professional associations you are a member of.
• Post pictures about work related events.
• Connect with people within the industry. Bond with them.
• Post interesting work related articles.
• Share your work related blog posts.

YOU as a human being

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Show your personal side. This will help you to bond with the recruiters. It is important to show that you are an upright citizen but it is even more essential to show your personal interests. It will make easier for them to remember YOU. Let me give a short checklist of things you can do: 

• Like the page of the charity or non-profit group you support.
• Post pictures about the healthy you. (sports you pursue, healthy recipies, etc) – After all, if you are healthy you will need less sick leave.
• Make sure to have posts and photos about your hobbies – It is always nice to see people who are passionate about their hobbies.

Oh, and one more thing: If you aren't employed at the moment than make sure either to post your resume or to link to your online resume (Here a few tips how to make creative CVs). 

You might also want to:

• make new professional connections
• engage in discussion with potential employers
• ask a friend to refer you for a job

How about you? Have you ever used facebook to advance your career? How?

Odd but Fun Jobs

Who said working isn't fun?!? Show him this infographic. Oh and please make the career advisors understand that you can be successful and cool even if you are not a lawyer.

Here are a few of those jobs that will let you show how daring and/or creative you are:

Friends Will Be Friends

So you have no friends or acquaintances in the UK. No worries. I know, I know, humans are social beings meaning we just need peers to share our experiences with. But the good news is: making friends in the UK is just the same as making friends in your home town. All you have to do is start socializing offline and online.

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Offline

Let me start with the most obvious: invite your colleagues to a cup of tea (I'd prefer beer but you get my drift ;) ). Working at the same place means that you will have at least one common topic. Who knows? It might turn out that your colleagues are quite cool and fun people.

Find like-minded people. Sit down and think through what your hobbies are, then ask around where can you find people like you. If you are a keen cyclist go to a bike shop and start chatting with the sales persons. If you like dancing, consider joining a dance school. If there is anything that you've always wanted to do (skydiving for instance) but you just didn't, why not give it a go. ;)

Religious support. It is somewhat similar to the previous advice. If you are a religious person, I'm sure you can find a community who shares your belief. So start searching.

Learn – If you aren't a native English speaker you might need to improve your speaking and listening skills. If you can afford it, I'd suggest to go to language courses. This way you can learn and socialize at the same time. I don't know why, but somehow the best/wildest parties are connected to extracurricular activities. Well, at least this is my experience. (Though most of the language courses aren't free there are some exceptions as well. For details check out my previous blogpost about mastering the English language.)

Oh, and one more thing: get acquainted with your neighbours. Sometimes – especially in larger cities – we don't even know our neighbours' name. But, regardless of their age, they could actually be quite nice people AND ... you know, they won't complain about the noise if you invite them to your housewarming party. :)

Online

I'm sure most of you have read hundreds of forum posts. So why not try being active and reply to some of them? It doesn't mean you have to be some kind of expert in a topic. Not at all. Most of the forums are about sharing your opinion and experience. So go find topics that interest you and you'll find several like-minded people within a couple of minutes. Then again you can use Facebook and Twitter to build new relationships … I'm sure here I don't have to go into details. … My point is, finding friends in the UK is not different from finding friends at home. Just be open minded and make the first step. The rest will take care of itself.

P.S.: Why not start socializing by leaving a comment? (I know a person who would like it very much ;) )